Thursday, December 18, 2008

Great expectations... but little to come?

Throughout the entire day, both students and teachers were buzzing around on excitement [espresso :)]. Not only are the holidays and winter break just around the corner, but there has been an underlying anticipation for, you guessed it, the snow day. Don't deny it-- you know you've considered how awesome it would be to start break a day early: no last-minute tests, no homework, and absolutely no teachers. Just you and your pillow together at last. However, reasoning comes over you and tells you that there most likely won't be a snow day and that you shouldn't get your hopes up.

But that's exactly it: you shouldn't get your hopes up. Why? Because you know that if it turns out that we don't have a snow day you'll be royally ticked off. And if you keep your hopes low, let's just say you won't be a happy camper. Is it just human nature to create images like this to alleviate distress? Why do we constantly set up false ideas when we know that they will make us feel worse than we did in the first place? 

Now let's flip perspectives. Is it considered pessimism when you purposefully keep your expectations low so that there will be no hard feelings? Based on my own experiences I have learned to keep my expectations low to prevent myself from totally losing it (which I can't say that I haven't done already). What is your opinion? Do you keep your expectations high or low?Do you think it determines whether a person is optimistic or pessimistic?

9 comments:

MK said...

Actually.... there is a very big chance we will have a snow day tomorrow. the snow/ice is coming late and there is gonna be a lot of it.

I looked at the link that you have for snow day and it says that after midnight about 6-10 inches of snow is suppossed to accumulate! So.... big chance everyone!

Wear your pajamas inside out and put a spoon under your pillow!!

Meghana said...

Well, as Alex always says (hope I didn't steal your comment!) if you're a pessimist you're either always right or pleasantly surprised.

Graicey said...

i tell myself to keep my expectations low, but internally i get excited. i can't help it!

and yes. spoons and pajamas people!

chelly. said...

snow day tomorrow!! i just got the call..yay :)

MK said...

THEY'VE OFFICIALLY CALLED IT A SNOW DAY!!!!!!

Alex D said...

I would post something of worth; however, Megahana said it for me. No harm done. =)
Wait, aren't I supposed to be mad at you? Never mind.

Anyways, yeah, I never get my hopes up for pretty much anything. I find that if you don't, and the good thing happens, you are so much happier. And if the good thing doesn't happen, it's easier to move on.

I'm very optimistic about my pessimism.

Alex D said...

WAIT
THAT IS A PICTURE OF THE SWACK
You made my day. =)

Rachel said...

SWACK ATTACK!!!!!!!!
haha that made me like laugh out loud!!!!

Anna said...

i consider myself a realist (which is the deceptive way of saying i am not sure whether i am an optimist or a pessimist). i know my limits, as well as the difference between what i know for fact and what i wish. so i challenge you to make something out of that mish-mash of thought.

(P.S. SNOW DAYZ RULE!)